Episode Thirty-Seven: Holding Onto Ourselves in Relationships (Part One)

Episode 40 January 24, 2022 00:40:05
Episode Thirty-Seven: Holding Onto Ourselves in Relationships (Part One)
Emotional Sobriety: The Next Step in Recovery
Episode Thirty-Seven: Holding Onto Ourselves in Relationships (Part One)

Jan 24 2022 | 00:40:05

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Patrick Newman

Show Notes

Saving the toughest insight for last, here we discuss holding onto ourselves in contexts that involve other people and unpredictable circumstances. Emotional Sobriety isn’t something we do on our own that much. Most of the practice is how we relate to the hard facts of the universe, to ourselves, our fortunes and misfortunes, and our history, to family and friends, and most difficult of all: to the people we love.

 

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Allen’s new book, 12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety: https://www.amazon.com/12-Essential-Insights-Emotional-Sobriety/dp/1955415129/

 

Thom's book, Embracing Fearhttps://www.amazon.com/Embracing-Fear-Turn-Scares-Greatest/dp/0062517759/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=

 

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