Love vs. Dependency

Episode 57 June 06, 2022 00:36:48
Love vs. Dependency
Emotional Sobriety: The Next Step in Recovery
Love vs. Dependency

Jun 06 2022 | 00:36:48

/

Show Notes

Having recently returned from his brother’s funeral, Thom reflects on the role Emotional Sobriety has played in his personal growth after a 23 year separation from his family. We also wrap up our earlier conversation about marriage and relationships - “people growers” that test our capacity to be “self governing” rather than unhealthily dependent on our partners.

 

Follow us on social media.

Twitter: @EmSobrietyPod

Instagram: thomrutledge2

 

Register for Allen and Thom’s upcoming Emotional Sobriety workshop: The Path to Inner Peace and Emotional Freedom

Sunday, June 26th 2022.

10am-5pm

$75 to attend.

For additional details,

Email Thom: [email protected]

Email Allen: [email protected]

harmonyhollowfarm.com

 

Allen’s first book, Love Secrets Revealed:

https://www.amazon.com/Love-Secrets-Revealed-Intimacy-Connection/dp/0757303978/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=love+secrets+revealed+allen+berger&qid=1650843975&sprefix=love+secrets+reve%2Caps%2C165&sr=8-1

 

Allen’s book, 12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety: https://www.amazon.com/12-Essential-Insights-Emotional-Sobriety/dp/1955415129/

 

Thom's book, Embracing Fearhttps://www.amazon.com/Embracing-Fear-Turn-Scares-Greatest/dp/0062517759/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=

 

Join Allen & Thom at our Thursday night, 7pm PST Zoom meeting on Emotional Sobriety and the Steps (login information below):

 

https://zoom.us/j/330149513

Password: 375986

 

For our ongoing video series on Emotional Sobriety and the 12 Steps, visit our YouTube channel here:

 

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHEM2-kqLkfp3I4c0jy-X-g

 

Also, please join our “Emotional Sobriety and Recovery” FB Group at the following link:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/120450976662519

We’d love to stay in touch in between meetings.

 

We appreciate feedback! Contact Patrick, our producer, at [email protected] for any questions or comments.

Other Episodes

Episode 76

October 23, 2022 00:37:44
Episode Cover

Making the Most of Fellowship & Support

Let's return to fundamental questions of what Emotional Sobriety is, and why we consider it the “next frontier." How do we build support systems,...

Listen

Episode 17

May 03, 2025 00:35:50
Episode Cover

Inukshuk with Julia Heidmann

Frequent collaborator and fellow recoverer Julia Heidmann stops by to talk about the role emotional sobriety has played in her relationships with others and...

Listen

Episode 13

April 05, 2025 00:23:19
Episode Cover

For the Newcomers

Acceptance of what is sets us on the road to change. While acceptance of powerlessness over alcohol, our dependencies, or lack of emotional sobriety...

Listen